Episode 2.14 Pervert Evangelism with Carly Boyce

This week we’re continuing our “play” series by talking with sex radical, feelings-witch and facilitator Carly Boyce. Carly tells me what play means in kink communities, and then we delve into consent culture, queer family, the relationship between power and sex, and a whole lot more. Want to read more about any of these topics? Here are some links!

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The podcast theme song is “Mesh Shirt” by Mom Jeans off their album “Chub Rub.” Listen to the whole album here or learn more about them here. Carly’s theme song is Loretta Lynn’s “Fist City.”

Secret Feminist Agenda is recorded on the traditional and unceded territories of the Squamish, Musqueam, and Tsleil-Waututh First Nations.

5 thoughts on “Episode 2.14 Pervert Evangelism with Carly Boyce

  1. Still loving your podcast ❤
    There may be reasons why you don't want to do this, and you've probably already thought about it, so feel free to ignore, but for the captioning, you could always start a Youtube channel? I leave the captions on a lot when I don't want to turn the sound up too far and I haven't noticed any glaring mistakes lately; the auto-captioning is much better than it used to be and can be edited at any time for mistakes and afaik it's free. You don't need actual videos to have a youtube channel, you can just paste a single image over an audio file using free software – but converting it does cost some (which is probably the biggest issue with any solution, of course). I think it could be popular, though? 🙂

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  2. Your episodes are always wonderful and relevant to my life, and the timing on this one couldn’t have been more perfect. It was exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you , both of You .


  3. I re-listened to this episode today, as this past weekend I attended my first play party- an event put on by the queer film festival in town. The first time I listened to this episode it really added to my background research on the kink scene that I have been wanting to explore for quite some time but been unsure about approaching. Having Carly’s comments on their experiences definitely helped me feel more comfortable going to this event as a newcomer. The episode is just generally a productive listen outside of its kink context too, so thank you very much, Hannah and Carly, for that! Additionally, I wanted to share that at this play party I have never felt so safe in a space that I have never entered into before, which I think speaks volumes in line with much of what Carly was saying, and contrary many notions people may have when they think about BDSM spaces. And a note on play, one of the first lines of dialog after a more demonstration scene I participated in was ‘That was a lot of fun.’ ‘Yes, that WAS a lot of fun!’


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